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Lola’s in Love! Why I Love My Sex Toys

I’m in love and its with some battery powered pieces of plastic. I love my sexy adult toys and think every girl should have a good collection of them…

Sex toys are great! I love them because they take away my frustrations and replace them with warm happy vibes (pun intended). I take them everywhere with me, I have too! Sometimes it’s the only way of dealing with life’s pressures. I can’t live without my trusty toys and the day my vibrators break is the day I buy new ones.

I also love using different sex toys with my partners because it’s fun, experimental and adds variety to longer sex sessions. Here are some of my favorites…

G-spot vibrators are my all time favorite ever. I hope who ever invented them is a millionaire because they deserve to be. I have helped five good friends find their g-spot by recommending this toy… It’s a winner.

Clit vibes are my second best friend. Cumming from both vaginal and clitoral stimulation at the same time is a massive thrill for me and I recommend it to any lady.

Anal beads and anal vibrators are a fantastic invention for fun antics. Tip… Try pulling them out as your partner orgasms to make the orgasm much more intense.

Whips and paddles. If you are like me and like a little pain then these gems are a must in your toy box. There not just for spanking an ass, try lightly whipping pussy for a buzz that makes you cry for more!

Restraints. They don’t have to be handcuffs, try silk ties or girlie belts. Being tied up and unable to touch yourself or your partner is a sure way of driving you wild.

Cock rings are awesome for cow girl position. It’s a rubber band with a small vibrator attached to it that fits on the man’s penis and can help you reach orgasm through your clit while you ride his penis so it’s on your g-spot.

Ladies… Using sex toys on yourself can help you explore your sexuality and help you understand how your body works. Using them with your partner helps give him a better understanding of how and what you like.

Guys… Please don’t feel threatened by sex toys, women love the real thing much more than anything else it’s just they love their toys as well.

I know there are many more toys on the market so comment below and tell us what they are and why you like them. Click here to check out our huge range of sex toys (all at super low prices…)

Love

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Why Can’t I Get You Out of My Head? (Fantasy)

I have this fantasy. I can’t get it out of my head. It keeps coming back, again and again and it just won’t go away…

There’s this fantasy that keeps popping into my head and has done so for some time now. I keep masturbating about this fantasy over and over again but it still won’t leave my mind. This fantasy is seriously beginning to take over my world. I can’t walk down the street past men without my mind wandering off into fantasy about their mouths and hands all over me. It’s as if my sub-conscious mind is screaming “Do it, live this one out… you won’t regret it!”

It starts like this…
“I open my eyes and I’m in a beautiful big penthouse bedroom, the curtains are wide open and I can see the night sky filled with stars. I’m completely naked and my arms and legs are wide open on the bed. I have three men caressing every inch of my body. I’m not handcuffed to the bed but I can’t move to feel their bodies (even though I want to). I start to struggle, willing my arms to move until I realize I have to just let go and obey their desire to satisfy me.

I look around the room and I realize the four of us are not alone. There are men and women stood around the room, some half naked and some completely naked. They’re watching me and my ‘gentle’ men on the bed and are playing with themselves because seeing me and my men is getting them horny.

In the corner, sitting at a vanity unit is a beautiful dark haired woman getting ready to cum from a red head licking her pussy. I’m really turned on from watching this display of the two girl’s together.

All three men are there to please me. I have a man (I will call him Master Mine) kissing me passionately on my lips while caressing my breasts. He moves his head away from me sometimes so he can watch the pleasure the other two are giving me, as it shows on my face. There are two men (I will call them Dr. Dirty and Sir Sexy) stroking and kissing the entire lower half of my body. I’m moaning out loud and bucking my hips begging them to stop teasing me. Eventually Dr. Dirty pushes a finger inside me and circles my clit with his tongue as Sir Sexy sucks and tantalizes my toes.

My two lower half lovers grin and talk with each other and then Sir Sexy moves up closer to my pussy. Dr. Dirty gives me some rimming pleasure before he slides his middle finger into my butt. He pushes his thumb into my pussy making a rocking motion, kissing my thigh as he moves. Sir Sexy inserts his first two fingers into my pussy, pushing past Dr. Dirty’s thumb making that all familiar ‘come here’ motion that always sends me wild. He puts his thumb on my clit, rubbing hard while he softly bites around my navel. They both work together, telling me to ‘cum baby’ and ‘let yourself go’.

My body erupts as my G-spot and clitoris works simultaneously with my men. They both pause, but they don’t pull out, they have not finished with me yet! Sir Sexy asks if I liked that and as I smile at him he pushes hard to the top of my vagina with his two fingers reaching my deep spot. With the full force of his arm my whole body rocks with his motion. Dr. Dirty squeezes his thumb and finger together and joins Sir Sexy in his rocking motion. Master Mine who’s still abusing my top half whispers in my ear ‘You’re our dirty slut, don’t you ever forget it’ and it makes me sky rocket into my next orgasm. I look down in between convulsions to see Dr. Dirty drink the white liquid squirting from my pussy.

I’m exhausted and I beg them to stop “Had enough have you Miss Lola? We will give you 10 minutes rest’ and with that Master Mine takes me in his arms as Dr. Dirty and Sir Sexy stroke my skin tenderly.”

I hope you have enjoyed my naughty little story and thank you for reading it. I would like to invite you to join my secret sexy community (it’s totally free to join). You can read lots more adult fantasies from real people. You can even share some if you like!?! If any of these ‘spots’ I talk about intrigue you then don’t hesitate to find my ‘how to’ articles. If you lose your way amongst all the articles and blog posts then send me a private message and I’m sure I can sort you out 😉

Love

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Can Men and Women Be Friends? – A Man’s Perspective

It is an age old question and it is an important one. Can men and women be friends without attraction, love or sex getting in the way of it?

Some people are of the opinion that men and women can’t really be friends without attraction getting in the way of that friendship and causing issues either between the two friends or between the friends and their partners.

What’s my opinion of this? I completely disagree!

I have tons of female friends, some of whom I think are attractive and some I don’t, this doesn’t affect the friendship in any way shape or form. I also know at various times some of my female friends have been attracted to me (hard to believe, I know lol 😉 ).

First of all I think it’s very easy for men and women to be friends with no physical attraction between them. Not everybody fancies everybody else!

Secondly, I think it is possible for one friend to find another attractive without it getting in the way of the friendship. I have some very hot female friends and if I let my attraction towards them get in the way I would lose some amazing friends. We are all human we find people attractive all day, every single day, it’s what we do. It’s no biggie.

Thirdly, I think two friends can have mutual attraction act on it by getting it on OR not act on it and just accept the fact that they find each other hot and still be good friends. I have female friends who I’ve slept with and then gone back to being good friends with. Again no biggie!

To be honest I think this whole myth stems from insecurity. I think people who are insecure and scared of being not good enough or worry about being cheated on (or dumped) do a few things.

They assume that their partners will always be looking for a chance to cheat and see any close friendship as a perfect opportunity for this to happen.

Also, they assume because they are worrying about sex and cheating all the time that everyone else is thinking about it and that everyone is having sex behind their back.

Finally, they see genuine attraction and assume the absolute worse. Instead of realizing their partners will always find other people attractive, they worry about it and try and control their partners desires.

Ok I’m almost done with this rant. I’m sure as our readers are so awesome they won’t buy into this belief. If you do lets debate it using the comments below 🙂 .

If you do suffer from jealousy or insecurity, I feel for you. I’ve been there and it’s not nice! I suggest you do your best to get it handled. Read some books, take up meditation or get some therapy, you deserve better and so do your partners.

My final point is this, I think we all need to accept the fact that we all find people attractive all the time. Like I said it’s what we do. I get that it can be a little scary but the sooner we all get over our fears and accept that our lovers fancy lots of people the better. Who knows we might even think about sharing them and getting some more action ourselves and then the fun can really start…! 😉

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Why I Love Being Dominated

I love it when a man, totally dominates me, uses and abuses me and treats me like his own personal dirty little whore…

A Woman’s Perspective

When I’m with a man, I love to be dominated and to be dominant. I’ve written about why I love being dominant here… But in this post I want to talk about being dominated and exactly why I love it so much!

In everyday life I’m a strong character – I’m quite assertive and have some masculine qualities that come through in my day-to-day life. I’m very happy with this, I take no shit and can change a car tire quicker than most guys, (I’ve also got a mean left hook 😉 ). BUT I am still a woman and I love being able to just let go and let my man control my body and mind, because of this being submissive feels really hot!

Dominant men are very sexy – I’m sure that most women will agree that there is something deeply erotic about a man who has the skills and the confidence to dominate a woman properly. In my experience there are very few men who can really do this well, which makes them even more sexy and attractive. But this may be due to my choice of men I wonder what my female readers think?

A quick note – A man who can dominate me is sexy but a man who try’s to domineer me is a huge turn off. What’s the difference? Dominance is about leading and controlling me in the bedroom with my permission. Being domineering is trying to control my behaviors in or out of the bedroom without my permission. DON’T DO IT!… (Or you will feel the force of my left hook!)

Being dominated enters my fantasies A LOT – Both in the adult stories I read and in my mind’s eye I love to fantasize about being controlled and dominated by a very strong, masculine man.

I keep an eye out for it with guys I’m chatting to – If a guy is hitting on me and I’m thinking about whether or not I want to sleep with him, I keep an eye out for any signs of dominance. I might be a little bit cheeky and see how he reacts. I might get a bit flirty and see how he handles it. I can usually tell very easily how dominant a man will be in bed.

What is it they do to me that I like? – Obviously being spanked, pinned down or handcuffed is part of him being dominant but there is more to it than that. For me its more about him taking charge, leading what we do and the feeling that he is using my body for his own pleasure rather than trying to worship me.

So this was just another quick blog post sharing some of my thoughts of male dominance and female submission.

What do you think? Have you got any comments or questions?
(Please feel free to join in the conversation using the box below).

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Why I Love Being Dominant – A Woman’s Perspective

Sometimes there is nothing I love more than to totally dominate a man. To take control and to use him, his body and his cock for my own very naughty pleasures…

I love being dominated by a confident man (I blogged about it here…), but I also LOVE dominating a guy I’m sleeping with.

Why do I love it?
What about it do I enjoy the most?
How do the guys react?

Why do I love dominating my partner? – It is a huge turn on for me to take control of a man, I love seeing the shock on his face when he realizes I’m going to take control and get what I want! In my mind I’ve decided “I want sex now!” and it’s funny to watch him figure it out!

What do I really enjoy about dominating men? – It’s having the confidence to do what I do and that makes me feel very, very horny and powerful! The feeling of power I have over him, his mind and body is mind-blowingly sexy.

Tease, tease, tease – This is my evil side coming out. I LOVE TEASING MEN! I like getting them so fucking horny they BEG ME to let them cum. Hahahaha yes I love being in control!

How do they react? – Most of the guys I’ve done this to have loved every minute of it. I think most men do have a submissive side to their nature its just whether or not they have the courage to experience it! (Go on boys give it a go…You know you want too 😉 )

BUT – There is a minor downside to all this. I can very rarely be as dominant as I want. I would love to go much, much further than this! I would like to tie them up for hours on end, tease them for forever, spank them until the pain is too much and then fuck their brains out!

Sadly for me I’ve yet to find many sexy guys that can take this sort of punishment. When I take control I keep an eye out to see how they handle it. I know they all have their own limits and most of these limits are much less than mine…

So this was just a nice quick blog post for me to get some thoughts about being dominant down in writing.

Ladies – Do you like being in control? Have you thought about it but never tried it?

Guys – Do you like being dominated? Would you like to give it a go?

Feel free to comment below with answers to these questions or anything else you would like to add to the mix.

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