How to Lick Pussy – A Beginners Guide

Expert pussy licking advice for beginners. Learn everything you need to know and then go have some fun..!

I love going down on women. I love the power of it. I love the taste of it and I love the feeling of knowing I can give my partner mind blowing orgasms with my tongue and my fingers. Because I love it so much, I’ve gotten pretty good at it (practice make perfect after all 😉 ). So if you want some tips on how to improve your pussy licking skills check out this list. (Also check out this post for female advice on how to lick pussy)

Get her in the right position – If you are in bed or on the floor put a cushion or pillow under her butt. This raises her pussy and makes it easier for you to lick and finger it at the same time. If you sit her on a chair and kneel in front of her this is another great way to get the right angle for tongue and finger action.

Have some lube ready before you start – If possible I like to have my lube ready so I’m not fumbling about in a drawer looking for it when it’s needed.

Kiss her whole body – Kiss every inch of her body. Tease her. Get close to her pussy and then move away. Do this again and again until she begs you to lick her out. WOMEN LOVE BEING TEASED!

how to lick pussy beginnersKiss her through her panties – An ex-girlfriend taught me this one. Women love the different sensation of being licked through their panties.

Use your breath to tease her even more – As you get ready to kiss her pussy, let your hot breath drift across her lips. Blow gently and deeply, teasing her until she can’t take it…

Kiss all her pussy – Don’t go straight for the clit, but pay attention to all of her. Suck her lips, lick all over her pussy and force your tongue deep inside her.

Zone in on the clit – Once you’ve teased and licked her whole body and after you have given all of her pussy some loving…Zone in on her clit. Start off gently and then increase the pressure and the speed of your tongue as she gives you the right signals from her body and the noises she makes.

Apply some lube and finger her pussy – Ideally I like to make a woman cum 2-3 times when I go down on her. The first time I just lick her clit, the second time I also finger her pussy and the third time I will finger her ass and her pussy as well. Fingering a girl whilst licking her clit can take a bit of practice but any woman will tell you it is worth the effort as the fingering will amplify and intensify her orgasm.

A note about lube – Most women like it if you use lube every time you finger them. It feels better for her and stops any friction causing uncomfortable sensations (especially during longer sessions of play.) Experiment with different types until you find one you both like.

If she is game, finger her ass – For some women a finger up the ass is a big no-no but for others it’s a short cut to sexual heaven so make sure you find your ladies’ preference before you start. ALWAYS use lube for anal play (the more the better) and be gentle. Lick her clit, finger both her pussy and ass and you will take her to sexual heaven!

After she has cum – After a woman has cum, she will be feeling intense sensations. Her skin will be highly sensitive and she will feel a warm glow of satisfaction deep inside her. When I’ve made a woman cum, I always like to pull her into me, stroke her skin, play with her hair and hug her tight. I want her to feel warm and safe so she can revel in the feelings she is experiencing.

Have a good one!
Jack
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Why Men Love Getting Blow-Jobs

Most guys love getting blow jobs. Why is that? What is it they love so much about them? Do they prefer them to intercourse..?

  • Why do I love getting blowjobs so much?
  • What is it about them, that can be better than sex?

Don’t get me wrong here, I love having sex but if I’m honest I prefer blow-jobs a lot of the time.

The main reason is this – When I have an orgasm from a blow-job, its much, much more intense than from sex. I’m not sure why this is, but it is definitely the case. Maybe its because I often wear condoms during sex? Maybe it’s just a different more intense type of stimulation? But if I’m honest I think it is mainly down to focus.

When I’m fucking a woman I have to concentrate on lots of things…Getting a nice rhythm going, lasting long enough for her to enjoy herself, picking a position that is fun for both of us, etc, etc. Again don’t get me wrong here, I’m certainly not complaining, I really do enjoy having sex. BUT when I am getting a blow-job, I don’t have to concentrate on ANYTHING apart from the sensations of pleasure I am feeling. I can just lie back, stay present, focus on what the lady is doing, relax and enjoy. This peace of mind, this ability to relax and focus on my own body and pleasure all build up to a much, much more powerful orgasm.

The other main reason is the out and out selfishness of it. The fact that a woman is concentrating all her efforts on giving me pleasure is a big turn on for me (and hopefully for her as well). When I’m going down on a woman, I want her to feel special, sexy and pampered, I love doing this and it makes me horny as hell. So when a girl is going down on me it’s the same but in reverse. If I ever end up sleeping with a woman who doesn’t like giving blow-jobs I’m afraid to say our relationship is doomed to be a short one!

So ladies, if you don’t give your man lots of blow-jobs I suggest you start to! Guys if you want more blow-jobs learn how to give your woman mind blowing orgasms and she is much more likely to oblige.

Make sure you comment below with your thoughts and questions. We always welcome and value your opinion!

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Have a good one!
Jack

Cocks Are Like Candy – Women LOVE Cock

Guys really need to learn this and then relearn it and then learn it some more. If you remember this one important thing, your sex life will be much, much better for doing so!

Quick note – This is just a fun blog post. It’s full of generalizations and isn’t about bi/gay women. Just take it with a pinch of salt and feel free to comment after you have read it…

It was a good friend of mine who really drilled this one home for me. (I’ve been grateful ever since). WOMEN LOVE COCKS. I mean they really love them. They are like candy for big girls. Once he pointed this out, I used this piece of information with all the women I slept with. I made sure to always let them play and have fun with my cock, THEY LOVED IT!

At first glance this might not sound like rocket science but think about it. What do most guys love about women? They love their pussies for sure, but they often prefer boobs, bums or legs. Guys aren’t usually that obsessed with a woman’s pussy.

Women on the other hand are obsessed with cocks. It is their favorite part of a man’s body. They love looking at them, feeling them touching them and sucking them.

I’ll say it again…

“COCKS ARE LIKE CANDY TO WOMEN”
“WOMEN LOVE COCKS”

Guys, once you realize this it gives you the power to really have fun with a woman. She is biologically hardwired to want your dick. (By hard-wired I mean it’s in their biology to love cock). Your dick has the power to make her wet, make her horny and make her cum. Use this to your advantage.

If you are flirting with a girl and want to sleep with her introduce her to your cock. Get her to touch it, tell her it’s hard, tell her it’s aching to be released.

(Warning here for the social imbeciles – ONLY DO THIS IF THE VIBE IS RIGHT AND IT’S CLEAR SHE IS TURNED ON AND FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE. DO NOT DO THIS UNLESS YOU ARE SURE THE TIME IS RIGHT!)

She might tell you off for being naughty, she might pull her hand away, in fact she most probably will but she will still love it. Women love hard cocks more than soft cocks and if the cock is hard because of her she will love it even more. They can’t help but love it, it’s in their DNA!

If you are a bi or gay woman reading this, what do you think? Do you ladies get obsessed over your dildos? Guys have you noticed this with your woman? Is she obsessed with your cock? Put your comments below or join our private fantasy community to join in the fun here…

One last point to remember. Women LOVE SEXY TOYS! So if there is a special lady in your life why not treat her to a toy or two, put a huge grin on her face and make her as horny as hell…?

Have a good one!
Jack

Anal Orgasms for Women – Everything You Need to Know

Did you know that women can cum just from being fucked in the ass? Its true all you need to do is learn how…

What a treat it is to get fucked up the ass! It’s one of my all time favorite sexual activities. Most people don’t know this, but all women can have an orgasm from anal sex.

A woman has orgasms from anal stimulation when the penis hits through the anal wall and onto the G-spot in the vagina. The nerve endings in the sphincter and the tightness of it make anal stimulation a huge pleasure, (if done correctly).

A great number of women not only find anal orgasms amazing but they would definitely like more of them. Others of course, are yet to experience the fun and excitement of anal ecstasy. Some women feel that they cannot ask for anal because of stigma attached and I go into that in this blog post: Lola’s perspectives on anal sex.

If you want to try anal sex and possibly even delve into anal orgasms, here are some tips to make it happen:

  1. Communication is essential. Talk it through with one another. You both need to know how and when anal sex begins and you both need to help guide the penis in gently.
  2. Arousal.There is no point shoving anything up anywhere until you are horny and ready for cock! Having a few orgasms beforehand will heighten the nerve endings on the G-spot and make it easier to orgasm.
  3. Juicy. Lube is essential. Buy some good quality sexual lube and use a lot of it. This will make it much less likely to hurt.
  4. Take your time. There is no rush. Start by opening it up with a finger and then move on to small toys or a couple of fingers. When you are both ready and comfortable then you can move onto his penis.
  5. Relax. Get it right. Once the muscles have relaxed and the penis is fully in then it will not hurt. There could be a few positions that are uncomfortable for you and some women can’t have it too deep, so play around and find out what is best for both of you.

Ladies please checkout our sexy community here, you will find tons of like-minded women to chat with. Men follow my advice and hopefully one of your fantasies will be ticked off the list. If you have any questions please comment below.

Lots more sexiness to follow…

Love
Lola

Women are Better at Turning On Other Women…

Do women naturally know how to turn on other women. Is it easy for them…? Or do they have to learn some skills and then practice them?

True or False?

There is a myth that women who sleep together for the first time will automatically know exactly what to do to each other. That they will automatically be able to have mind blowing howling-orgasm-type sex with no practice necessary.

Speaking from a woman’s perspective, I have to say in my experience this is mostly untrue. My first few girl-on-girl encounters weren’t mind blowing at all. In fact they were a bit awkward and clumsy. Don’t get me wrong they were still really good fun but they were a million miles away from the mythical fantasy above.
I didn’t really know what I was doing, I was really nervous and a bit freaked out by the whole thing.

Now the myth of course isn’t totally untrue either. Women do instinctively know things about other woman’s bodies that a man can never know. They are very often more sensual and gentle in their lovemaking, which is of course often appreciated by other women.

Women are also quite commonly more attuned to another woman’s emotional needs. This can help her get in a much more relaxed and free state of mind in which to enjoy herself and her partner.

The main reason I wanted to write this short blog post was for the ladies out there who might want to try sleeping with another lady. If this is you, I don’t want you to put pressure on yourself thinking you have to live up to the myth and have mind-blowing sex the first time you get naked with another woman.

Don’t let this pressure put you off trying it, or stop you from enjoying whatever happens. My advice is very simple. Firstly pick your girl carefully. Second take your time, don’t rush straight into the wet sticky bits. Finally remember to enjoy whatever happens and let go of any unrealistic expectations or fantasies that you may have.

Guys – If you are lucky enough to be having a threesome with two ladies you need to take the lead. Look after them, show them the way and they will feel much better for having your help.

If you are thinking about trying girl on girl or having a threesome with two ladies, why not check out my free sexy community and have a chat about it..? All the members are very sexy, really fun and happy to chat so make sure you check it out.

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Love
Lola