When it comes to my attraction levels with men I find things change the older I get.
While looks still do matter to me, they are much less important than they used to be. I don’t know if this is because I’m less shallow or just because my tastes have changed but it’s the way it is and I’m very happy with it!
Here is a list of some of the random things I find attractive in the men I meet, date or just perv at from afar! 😉
- Personality can be so much more attractive than looks. I know some guys find this hard to believe but for me it is 100% true. A confident man or even better a man who is confident and funny is a huge turn on, no matter what he looks like.
- Hairy chests! I love them, As soon as I see one I find myself imagining what it would be like to nuzzle up against it after hot steamy sex.
- Masculinity. Before I decide to sleep with a man I will picture myself in their arms. If the image makes me feel feminine and safe this is very sexy. He doesn’t have to have huge muscly arms but I do prefer them to be masculine in some way.
- Men’s chests in general…I love them!
- Bald heads…Phwoar!
- Big strong chunky legs. I live in the UK and over here we have some very sexy rugby players with nice big muscly thighs…Yum yum!
- More on personality. I pay attention to the way he talks to me, if he wont let me finish or talks over me it’s a no-no.
If a guy listens to me and I feel I can talk to him honestly and feel a connection it is very attractive.
- Subtle dominance. I love it if he puts me in my place. I might be cheeky on purpose or I might say something without realizing it. If he calls me out on it, then it’s instantly a strong turn on. (Note I do not like domineering men but I do like men who don’t stand for any BS).
- Nice teeth and lips are very hot and make me think about kissing and thinking about kissing makes me think about fucking and so it goes on…!
- If they are good kissers this makes me find their mouths even more attractive.
- Having a clean body, clean cock, tidied up and smelling nice
- Knowing what he wants. A man who knows what he wants and gets it is a major point of attraction.
- That super cool vibe. If he is comfortable in his own skin, I find it magnetic and want to spend more and more time with him
- The fact that they have a dick. I love dicks and just thinking about a man’s dick gets me thinking about what it would be like to feel it inside me.
Well I was going to stop but I got carried away!
So what do you think of my list? Do you have anything to add?
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